tact (tăkt) pronunciation
n. 1. Acute sensitivity to what is proper and appropriate in dealing with others, including the ability to speak or act without offending.

I truly believe that a lot of the friction that takes place in life boils down to a lack of tact. There is power of life and death in the tongue. An encouraging word to stressed friend can help them get through the day. A callous comment to someone depressed can be the straw that breaks the colloquial camel’s back.

Be exceedingly careful about what you say. Some folks attempt to rationalize this character flaw with, “I’m just honest” or “I am not afraid to express myself.” While those statements may be true, one should take far more pride in developing the skills necessary to express one’s self while being sensitive to the needs of others.